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　　情人节到了，连人民日报都会说“将来30年将有约3000万男人娶不到媳妇”！！！今天就来遍及一下独身的优点！送给各位独身宝宝们！

　　独身不可怕

　　Anyone who lives alone and manifests no longing to be in a relationship is in our times almost automatically viewed as pitiable.Moreover, they think that it is simply not possible to be at once alone and normal.This set us up for collective catastrophe,because it means that a huge number of people who have no wish to live with anyone else.Even worse,they are under press and pressure, then they are shamed into conjugal life（婚姻生活）.No doubt that they are with disastrous results for all involved. Only once singlehood has completely equal prestige with its alternative can we ensure that people will be free in their choices.And hence,they can join couples for the right reasons because they love another person ,rather than because they are terrified of remaining single.

　　在这个时代，不想爱情的独居人士总被人静静视为不幸而有疑问的人，大家认为独身绝对不可能是正常人。这使得一大拨人难以逃过，由于有很多人打心底不想和他人在一起。可是，很大一部分的独身人士却迫于压力，满怀内疚地开展爱情联系乃至进入婚姻殿堂。终究两边都落得伤痕累累。只要大家像注重婚姻一样注重独身生活时才干确保大家具有自在的挑选权，以合理的因素投入一段豪情，也即是“爱”而不是大家惧怕独身。

　　保持独身的优点

　　Romantic love is a dangerous illusion.

　　浪漫爱情仅仅泡沫

　　We should recognize that romantic love,the idea of being deeply enamored with one special partner over a whole lifetime is a very new, ambitious and really pretty odd concept.From close-up ,over periods of time ,almost everyone is condemned to be pretty dispiriting and difficult.A good romantic marriage is evidently theoretically possible.It may also be extremely unlikely in practice.,which should make any failure feel a good deal less shameful.

　　咱们应当认识到：浪漫爱情也即是深爱着自个的那个人会矢志不渝，仅仅一个过火自傲又古怪的重生概念。时刻一长，通过细心的调查，就会发现每个人都难以共处，令人绝望。明显，浪漫婚姻在理论上可行，但却难以在实际生活中完成。因而，爱情失利也就情有可原了。

　　No one thinks their partner is terrific after a while.

　　共处久了以后，会逐渐发现另一半并不完美

　　Those among us who chose to stay single shouldn’t be thought unromantic.Indeed ,we may be among the very most romantic of all, because it is in the end the fervent romantics who should be especially careful of ending up in boring relationships.

　　挑选独身的人并非缺乏浪漫细胞，事实上,咱们也可能非常浪漫。由于到最后，只要最浪漫的人才需防范自个和对方变得无趣。

　　We aren’t sane enough to be in relationships.

　　面对豪情，咱们还不够沉着

　　Though it is a sign of some maturity to know how to love and live alongside someone, it is actually a sign of even greater to recognize that this is something that one isn’t in the end gotta be psychologically really capable of，as a good portion of us simply aren’t.In that cases, we retire ourselves voluntarily ,in order to save others from the terrible consequences ,or it is called bad ending.

　　学会去爱固然是老练的表现，可是意识到一段豪情远超自个的心思接受能力更能表现老练，由于有些人确实接受不来。在这种情况下，咱们主动挑选退出，使他人和自个免受伤害。这可能是一种伟大和仁慈的表现吧。

　　Being alone means not inflicting yourself on others.

　　独身意味着不让他人遭罪

　　However, being alone means not inflicting ourselves on others.It spares us from constant reminders of how difficult and strange we are!No one is there to hold a mirror up-record your antics and constantly make you accountable for them. If you ‘re lucky, you will be able to tolerate and even like yourself if you are on your own.

　　独死后，你就不会老想着自个多么奇葩而冷若冰霜。没人会举着镜子，追寻你的一举一动，对你的所作所为指指点点。独自一人时，你能忍耐自个、喜欢自个。

　　本来，咱们真的不用忧虑，二十岁的关口，还算是年青的！也没有哪一条规则你必定得成婚，即便独身一人，咱们也能够将自个的生活过的有滋有味呢。假如没能遇见爱的人，那么余生就让咱们自个酷下去吧！

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